Wha!?

These days I am living my life vicariously through my girls...mis chicas! As I have finally found the love of my life for the first time in like 7 years...okay really like 4 years (we have been together for 2) but the guys b4 him were music industry guys and well, they dont count!

So...my friend Wendi calls me today and it goes a little like this...

Wendi... " I feel like such a loser!"
Me... "Don't we all girl, but why do you?"
Wendi... "I did it, I let Mark...!"
Me... " Laughing...What? Well, Wendi, come on, you let him spend night after nite with you -- I mean what did you expect?"
Wendi... "I know --- UGGGGHHHHHHH!!!! but I just feel so badly because of Greg...


SIDEBAR... Greg is the FIANCE. But Greg lives in Roma...as in Rome, Italy and Wendi lives in LA. Mark is the ex with plenty of baby mama drama and commitment issues...Okay, back to the story...

Me... "Well don't beat yourself up girl because at the end of the day you have got to be true to yourself, ya know...so how do you feel?" I mean do you want to be with Mark...HOW WAS IT?"

Wen.. "Not good..." "Much better with Greg." "With Mark it feels like a chore."

Me... "YIKES!" "Well, to me, this was a way for you to figure out what you really want -- let's be real -- there were still unanswered lingering feelings there that you didnt really know what to do with. Now you can move on with Greg without regrets." "But promise me this...you will NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVEERRRR tell Greg about this no matter how bad you feel about it...It will ruin everything!!" "The old ladies are so right when they say NEVER tell a man EVERYTHING, it will bite you in the ass because their egos dont allow them to move past it...believe me I know from experience." "Let's just put this behind you and keep it movin'"

Wen... "Yeah, I hear you...

Me... "I'm serious!!" "DONT!" "By the way -- where is Mark now?"

Wen... "Downstairs!"

Me... "Wha!!?????"

I hope this ends well because I was really looking forward to visiting her in Roma...I love Roma!! But really, I think she will be okay. Its just right now it just happened so she has to swallow it first (no pun intended!) Heeeheeee...